Who says that? I went home and got prepared for the "private" abortion. The private abortion turned into immediate pain and agony. I felt alone, sad, and hopeless. I also felt guilt and shame because my husband pretty much didn't have much of a voice in the situation.
Once the abortion was "over" on Monday morning, I got up and proceeded with life like nothing happened. I remember not wanting my husband to look at nor touch me. I also remember not wanting to ever have sex with him. I continued to cry day in and day out.
—from Silent No More Awareness website (view testimony)